My ex...
...is an idiot.
And I dodged one hell of a bullet.
So, we've got seven sick days we can take without penalty throughout the year. Yesterday he hit nine sick days. Those extra two sick days cost him two points.
Today he simply did a no call, no show.
We have twelve attendance points and they start kicking in once we hit our allowed sick days or if we leave during our shift.
He had already hit at least eight points before the start of this year and had not managed to have any of them roll off. So, a NCNS is a four points all by itself. If you add the eight points from last year, the four points from the extra two sick days, and now the four points from today, and he's at sixteen points.
Which means, unless he's got serious horseshoes stuffed up his ass, that he no longer has a job.
If he had never told me that he's lost every single one of his jobs this same way I might be a bit worried about him. Instead I'm just disgusted at his behaviour.
I halfway expect him to try to blame me for his not being able to come into work, but I have not spoken to him since he broke up with me. I left it in his hands to try to strike up any sort of conversation, and obviously he never took that step. Maybe he felt stupid and couldn't face me? Whatever it is all I can say is that I am glad that he showed his true colours before he ever moved in with me or before I uprooted my kid and I to move somewhere more expensive only to find ourselves having to shoulder his share of the rent too.
I doubt that he will ever realize that this is no way to live and that he really needs to grow up if he ever wants a relationship to last. How he ever expected me to put effort into a relationship with a guy who doesn't respond to any attempts at communication until I threatened to have the police stop by his place to do a wellness check. Three fucking days of unanswered texts until I finally got worried enough to tell him that I would call the police. And it was only to say that he did not want the police to show up.
Oh well. Not my problem anymore, and I think I have done well with ignoring him at work. Other than to make some comment about his continued stupidity with his constant calling out sick and giving him extended weekends. Or how stunned in general he is about pretty much everything.
Oh well. There is somebody out there for me somewhere, and I hope I find them before it is too late.
And I dodged one hell of a bullet.
So, we've got seven sick days we can take without penalty throughout the year. Yesterday he hit nine sick days. Those extra two sick days cost him two points.
Today he simply did a no call, no show.
We have twelve attendance points and they start kicking in once we hit our allowed sick days or if we leave during our shift.
He had already hit at least eight points before the start of this year and had not managed to have any of them roll off. So, a NCNS is a four points all by itself. If you add the eight points from last year, the four points from the extra two sick days, and now the four points from today, and he's at sixteen points.
Which means, unless he's got serious horseshoes stuffed up his ass, that he no longer has a job.
If he had never told me that he's lost every single one of his jobs this same way I might be a bit worried about him. Instead I'm just disgusted at his behaviour.
I halfway expect him to try to blame me for his not being able to come into work, but I have not spoken to him since he broke up with me. I left it in his hands to try to strike up any sort of conversation, and obviously he never took that step. Maybe he felt stupid and couldn't face me? Whatever it is all I can say is that I am glad that he showed his true colours before he ever moved in with me or before I uprooted my kid and I to move somewhere more expensive only to find ourselves having to shoulder his share of the rent too.
I doubt that he will ever realize that this is no way to live and that he really needs to grow up if he ever wants a relationship to last. How he ever expected me to put effort into a relationship with a guy who doesn't respond to any attempts at communication until I threatened to have the police stop by his place to do a wellness check. Three fucking days of unanswered texts until I finally got worried enough to tell him that I would call the police. And it was only to say that he did not want the police to show up.
Oh well. Not my problem anymore, and I think I have done well with ignoring him at work. Other than to make some comment about his continued stupidity with his constant calling out sick and giving him extended weekends. Or how stunned in general he is about pretty much everything.
Oh well. There is somebody out there for me somewhere, and I hope I find them before it is too late.
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