Ex got his ass fired on Valentine's Day...what a loser
The ex no longer has a job - he was termed on Valentine's Day.
I can only wonder exactly what goes through a person's head to continue to do the same stupid thing repeatedly. Clearly he's not all that bright if it means that he has yet to learn a lesson out of all of this. But I also think he tends to think he'll always get bailed out whenever he screws up like he apparently always does.
When he told me that he always loses his jobs the same way, I thought maybe he felt guilty about it all and wanted to make a change. Obviously not.
Whenever I eat in the food court at the mall I work in I keep expecting his mother to approach me to ask what happened. Or to give me shit for not making her son a priority. Frankly, I'd love her to try giving me shit because I'd tell her - mother to mother - that she raised a selfish idiot who refuses to learn from his mistakes or is just too stupid to figure out that how he chooses to go on is no way to live.
What is he going to do? Probably end up on welfare yet again. Because of how he lost this job I know he is not eligible for unemployment - if you quit or are terminated with cause you don't get a cent. Which means his only option is welfare.
I will never understand the mindset of somebody who does everything they can to remain on welfare instead of working. I have worked for most of my life, regardless of my mental health, struggling to hold it together even though I would have been more than qualified to go on stress leave several times over the years. For the first three years of my kid's life I was on welfare and then only sporadically after that, and only long enough for me to get through a truly rough spot before I found another job. I haven't been on welfare since my kid was eight, unless you include childcare subsidy, and even that stopped with my kid was eleven. I have worked pretty much non-stop since then, and even worked through a large portion of my university years to help make my student loan money stretch a little further.
But it seems my kind of work ethic is not as common as it used to be, and entirely too many people have turned into lazy arseholes who would rather let the government look after them. I get that there are some people who have no choice, but if you're able to work it doesn't make any sense to me that you wouldn't even try.
Oh well. Yet again I can say that I dodged one hell of a bullet when he started distancing himself from me before he finally broke it off. I am so glad that I never took on the cost of a more expensive place and having to move to a place where I'd be stuck dealing with the useless asshole.
I can only assume that he is going to lay the blame everywhere but where it belongs. Just like every other loser out there.
I can only wonder exactly what goes through a person's head to continue to do the same stupid thing repeatedly. Clearly he's not all that bright if it means that he has yet to learn a lesson out of all of this. But I also think he tends to think he'll always get bailed out whenever he screws up like he apparently always does.
When he told me that he always loses his jobs the same way, I thought maybe he felt guilty about it all and wanted to make a change. Obviously not.
Whenever I eat in the food court at the mall I work in I keep expecting his mother to approach me to ask what happened. Or to give me shit for not making her son a priority. Frankly, I'd love her to try giving me shit because I'd tell her - mother to mother - that she raised a selfish idiot who refuses to learn from his mistakes or is just too stupid to figure out that how he chooses to go on is no way to live.
What is he going to do? Probably end up on welfare yet again. Because of how he lost this job I know he is not eligible for unemployment - if you quit or are terminated with cause you don't get a cent. Which means his only option is welfare.
I will never understand the mindset of somebody who does everything they can to remain on welfare instead of working. I have worked for most of my life, regardless of my mental health, struggling to hold it together even though I would have been more than qualified to go on stress leave several times over the years. For the first three years of my kid's life I was on welfare and then only sporadically after that, and only long enough for me to get through a truly rough spot before I found another job. I haven't been on welfare since my kid was eight, unless you include childcare subsidy, and even that stopped with my kid was eleven. I have worked pretty much non-stop since then, and even worked through a large portion of my university years to help make my student loan money stretch a little further.
But it seems my kind of work ethic is not as common as it used to be, and entirely too many people have turned into lazy arseholes who would rather let the government look after them. I get that there are some people who have no choice, but if you're able to work it doesn't make any sense to me that you wouldn't even try.
Oh well. Yet again I can say that I dodged one hell of a bullet when he started distancing himself from me before he finally broke it off. I am so glad that I never took on the cost of a more expensive place and having to move to a place where I'd be stuck dealing with the useless asshole.
I can only assume that he is going to lay the blame everywhere but where it belongs. Just like every other loser out there.
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