Dodging Bullets
So, I found out why the ex broke up with me, not that he had the balls to tell me himself. Instead he told a mutual friend who then told me.
Apparently he is pissed off that I didn't make him a priority in my life.
Yep, that is what it amounts to.
Despite the fact that he knows that my kid comes first and always will. Despite me telling him that like all humans I need my space. Despite him knowing what my work schedule was like and that it did not match up with his to make spending time together easy.
Of course he glossed over the fact that he fucking started lying to me. Or the fact that HE started distancing himself from me.
Yet, I'm at fault because I didn't make him a priority.
Uh.
Fuck you, buddy.
You knew where I stood and why I did things the way I did, so why would you EVER expect me to just bow down and kiss your arse. You knew that even though my kid is an adult that they will always come first. You knew that I did not always have the ability to come over at the drop of a hat - some of us have lives outside of intimate relationships and have no desire to put those lives on hold.
I knew you were pissed off when I flat out refused to even consider moving at the end of March because I have other obligations that do not revolve around him. He actually got all put out because I flat out refused to even contemplate moving at that time. Mind you, it was a moot point because I had already decided that my kid and I were going to stay put for the foreseeable future, regardless of if my relationship had lasted.
And I find it kind of hilarious that he never had the balls to speak to me about any of this. It is entirely indicative of just how emotionally immature he is, and I don't see it changing at all.
Apparently he is pissed off that I didn't make him a priority in my life.
Yep, that is what it amounts to.
Despite the fact that he knows that my kid comes first and always will. Despite me telling him that like all humans I need my space. Despite him knowing what my work schedule was like and that it did not match up with his to make spending time together easy.
Of course he glossed over the fact that he fucking started lying to me. Or the fact that HE started distancing himself from me.
Yet, I'm at fault because I didn't make him a priority.
Uh.
Fuck you, buddy.
You knew where I stood and why I did things the way I did, so why would you EVER expect me to just bow down and kiss your arse. You knew that even though my kid is an adult that they will always come first. You knew that I did not always have the ability to come over at the drop of a hat - some of us have lives outside of intimate relationships and have no desire to put those lives on hold.
I knew you were pissed off when I flat out refused to even consider moving at the end of March because I have other obligations that do not revolve around him. He actually got all put out because I flat out refused to even contemplate moving at that time. Mind you, it was a moot point because I had already decided that my kid and I were going to stay put for the foreseeable future, regardless of if my relationship had lasted.
And I find it kind of hilarious that he never had the balls to speak to me about any of this. It is entirely indicative of just how emotionally immature he is, and I don't see it changing at all.
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