He's gone...thank fuck for small miracles! Reminded why I was gonna dump his ass before he broke up with me first...
Yesterday it was so nice to be able to come home after work and sit in my own living room to watch something on Netflix without having to worry about the ex saying or doing something what would piss me off.
The first couple of days he was here I tried to ignore his comments about stuff, but he would come out with some of the most stupid things. I swear that he has no concept of what real life is and would constantly say how something couldn't be real...even though it was staring him in the face.
He still couldn't get over the fact that I do not need to smoke pot on a daily basis. Or that even though my bedroom light is on that I could sleep. Or just any number of things.
The day that he moved out he was up the earliest he's been up since he first came to stay with me. Probably because he wanted to get a hold of somebody to come move his shit. Of course, he learned the hard way that you can't just call a moving company and expect to move that day - I had already explained to him on the day he got his new place that he needed to make an appointment with a mover, or even the Help Truck, to move. But he waited until the last possible moment, of course. And his mother was the one who finally called around and managed to get the Help Truck for mid-afternoon. This does nothing to teach my ex how to function on his own and deal with his mistakes like an adult. Ugh. It explains so much.
And despite it being clear that I have no interest in him, my ex decided to message me today to ask if I wanted to see a movie with him. How about FUCK NO! I know he sees it as going on a date, not just friends hanging out, and I have absolutely no interest in any sort of relationship with him. Yes, that includes friendship because he pisses me off that much with how utterly fucking stunned he is. I have never dealt well with stupidity, especially when said stupid idiot does not want to improve themselves in any way.
At this point I am giving up on finding a romantic partner because the last two people I have dated have been children in adult bodies who are so out of touch with the reality of being an adult. Not to mention extremely uneducated and not able to understand why I like or do the things that I do. Questioning every little thing I do concerning my hobbies and fandoms, and I don't mean questions to help them understand either - try more like questions that belittle me and my interests. Yeah, not something I particularly want to deal with.
I don't really mind the idea of being single for the rest of my life. Sure, I'd like a partner who enjoys the same things I do and is capable of intelligent conversation...and isn't my kid :P Oh well, such is life sometimes!
The first couple of days he was here I tried to ignore his comments about stuff, but he would come out with some of the most stupid things. I swear that he has no concept of what real life is and would constantly say how something couldn't be real...even though it was staring him in the face.
He still couldn't get over the fact that I do not need to smoke pot on a daily basis. Or that even though my bedroom light is on that I could sleep. Or just any number of things.
The day that he moved out he was up the earliest he's been up since he first came to stay with me. Probably because he wanted to get a hold of somebody to come move his shit. Of course, he learned the hard way that you can't just call a moving company and expect to move that day - I had already explained to him on the day he got his new place that he needed to make an appointment with a mover, or even the Help Truck, to move. But he waited until the last possible moment, of course. And his mother was the one who finally called around and managed to get the Help Truck for mid-afternoon. This does nothing to teach my ex how to function on his own and deal with his mistakes like an adult. Ugh. It explains so much.
And despite it being clear that I have no interest in him, my ex decided to message me today to ask if I wanted to see a movie with him. How about FUCK NO! I know he sees it as going on a date, not just friends hanging out, and I have absolutely no interest in any sort of relationship with him. Yes, that includes friendship because he pisses me off that much with how utterly fucking stunned he is. I have never dealt well with stupidity, especially when said stupid idiot does not want to improve themselves in any way.
At this point I am giving up on finding a romantic partner because the last two people I have dated have been children in adult bodies who are so out of touch with the reality of being an adult. Not to mention extremely uneducated and not able to understand why I like or do the things that I do. Questioning every little thing I do concerning my hobbies and fandoms, and I don't mean questions to help them understand either - try more like questions that belittle me and my interests. Yeah, not something I particularly want to deal with.
I don't really mind the idea of being single for the rest of my life. Sure, I'd like a partner who enjoys the same things I do and is capable of intelligent conversation...and isn't my kid :P Oh well, such is life sometimes!
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