Staying put...bf having second thoughts, and my having second thoughts about the bf
Well, it looks like I will be staying put for a while longer. The boyfriend has decided that he does not want to move into my place at all, that we should plan on moving into a new place entirely instead of him basically having to move twice. And that is not his only excuse.
One of his excuses has been that my current place is too far from where I live. Any of the places I have been looking at that include three bedrooms (and that is even before trying to look for a place with a balcony or porch) are even further away. Yet he's okay with that? Um, something is not adding up here.
If he feels there is a serious issue with my place then I wish he would just say it instead of coming up with excuses. It pisses me off when somebody feels that they can just basically lie instead of being honest, and that is the sort of thing I cannot tolerate in a partner. Either be honest or fuck off. I've got no time for bullshitters.
Further to that, tonight is Tibb's Eve here in Newfoundland and it's a tradition to drink tonight. It's a tradition that I feel is utter bullshit and needs to just go away. Especially if people use it as an excuse to drink alone - that is something I have serious issues with. Social drinking is one thing, but using Tibb's Eve as an excuse to drink alone just doesn't fly with me. If you absolutely MUST drink alone and are using tradition as an excuse, well, that's another thing you can just fuck right off over. I have NEVER understood anybody's desire to drink alone, even if it is just to get tipsy. And getting drunk on Tibb's Eve just because it's tradition is utter bullshit.
Right about now I am having serious second and third thoughts about getting a place with the boyfriend. I don't give a shit the fact that he uses pot on a regular basis, although the amount he does tends to worry me more than a bit - he seems to be unable to go a couple of hours when he's not working without smoking a bowl/joint. I do give a shit about the fact that he feels he can't be honest with me and that he feels that tradition is a valid reason to drink, especially alone.
One of his excuses has been that my current place is too far from where I live. Any of the places I have been looking at that include three bedrooms (and that is even before trying to look for a place with a balcony or porch) are even further away. Yet he's okay with that? Um, something is not adding up here.
If he feels there is a serious issue with my place then I wish he would just say it instead of coming up with excuses. It pisses me off when somebody feels that they can just basically lie instead of being honest, and that is the sort of thing I cannot tolerate in a partner. Either be honest or fuck off. I've got no time for bullshitters.
Further to that, tonight is Tibb's Eve here in Newfoundland and it's a tradition to drink tonight. It's a tradition that I feel is utter bullshit and needs to just go away. Especially if people use it as an excuse to drink alone - that is something I have serious issues with. Social drinking is one thing, but using Tibb's Eve as an excuse to drink alone just doesn't fly with me. If you absolutely MUST drink alone and are using tradition as an excuse, well, that's another thing you can just fuck right off over. I have NEVER understood anybody's desire to drink alone, even if it is just to get tipsy. And getting drunk on Tibb's Eve just because it's tradition is utter bullshit.
Right about now I am having serious second and third thoughts about getting a place with the boyfriend. I don't give a shit the fact that he uses pot on a regular basis, although the amount he does tends to worry me more than a bit - he seems to be unable to go a couple of hours when he's not working without smoking a bowl/joint. I do give a shit about the fact that he feels he can't be honest with me and that he feels that tradition is a valid reason to drink, especially alone.
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